1) Baby Carrier: Moby wrap, Ergo - helpful website for baby wearing TheBabyWearer.com
I attended a Babywearing Fair before Brea was born and was taken aback by all the variety of carriers out there. In the end, our decision was to get a wrap style for me and a more structured one for Craig. I've been through a variety including: the Bjorn and the mei tai, but these two are my favourite for comfort and ease of use. All in all, it was so helpful to have a carrier and it really worked well for Brea, especially being a baby who loved being in motion to sleep :o)
2) Bouncy chair/Baby swing
As I mentioned, I have a baby who loved being in motion - no doubt from all the water aerobics I did while pregnant. This is not really a necessity but I loved being able to but her into a seat that she loved and was safe in while I got things done. The swing helped me get much needed rest as well as she would often fall asleep in it.
3) Sleep sacks: Halo SleepSack Swaddle, Sleep Huggers
My baby loves sleep sacks. When she was little, the tighter you wrapped her, the better she slept. The Halo Swaddle sack was great since the swaddle part could be removed and baby would stay warm. Now that we are into winter, the Sleep Hugger sleep sacks are the highest rated TOG (3.0) that I have found, very well made and suits our climate well. I am happy knowing my baby is safe and warm.
4) Detergent: Country Save
As everyone knows, baby's skin is sensitive and some detergents can be quite harsh. I found Country Save to be great for Brea's clothes but especially good for cloth diapers. It does not create residue in the diapers that can ruin their efficiency.
5) Knowledge: Books - The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby From Birth to Age Two by William Sears, M.D., Happiest Baby on the Block by Harvey Karp, M.D.
I read and read and read for a long time while waiting for my baby to arrive. I felt, the more I knew, the better prepared I would be. These two books were the ones I found to be most helpful in those early stages and even now when Brea is over 16 months. I still consult Dr. Sears' book whenever I have some questions.
6) Breastfeeding gear: Bravado bras, Medela pump, Bamboobino breast pads
I had a very painful beginning to breasfeeding but thanks to these products, it made it much easier. I had an unfortunate incident one morning when I neglected to moisten my disposable breast pad and nearly ripped my nipple off (I know, I'm being quite graphic here, but it might help you!). My loving husband, quickly tore out of the house to purchase a pump, which until that time I had put off buying because I wasn't sure I needed it. In the end, I found the reusable and luxuriously soft bamboo pads to be the saviour to my sore boobs, Medela's Harmony pump to be the best value for what I needed - an occasional pumping when too full or for storage, and Bravado's bras and tanks to be the most comfortable and versatile clothing piece.
7) Washclothes: Bamboobino, IKEA
You can never have enough washclothes - you'll be burped up on, puked on, peed on...
Bathtime was a hit and miss with Brea when she was little but when I discovered soft bamboo washclothes, it was like night and day. She didn't mind when I washed her face and body at all.
8) Mobility: Car seat - Graco Snugride, Britax Boulevard; Strollers - Bob Revolution, Maclaren Quest Sport
I did a lot of research when it came to travel safety. These ended up being my ultimate choices. This is a very personal choice since it relies so much on your lifestyle. Our BOB served as our primary stroller until Brea was no longer in her infant carseat, then, I found that having an umbrella stroller stowed in the car to be much more practical, especially when you need to dash into the mall or grocery store.
9) Diapering: Cloth diapers - Bummis; Salves - Dimpleskins Naturals
This combination of cloth diapers and salves has been gold for my daughter, she's never suffered from diaper rash.
10) Music: Bobs and Lolo
In the car when toys and gadgets can be tossed aside and flung under seats, music has served as our best source of entertainment. I love listening to these ladies! Their songs are upbeat and carry positive messages. Brea loves bopping her head along to the beat!